When you are in trouble，whom will you tell the problems to and ask for help? Someone has made a survey in a middle school．500 students were asked to choose one answer among friends or classmates，parents，head teacher and teachers．Here is the result．Please read the chart and try to get some information．

1. 1.

   Most of the students would like to talk about their problems with _________．

   1. A.
      friends or classmates
   2. B.
      parents
   3. C.
      head teacher
   4. D.
      teachers
2. 2.

   Less than a quarter of the students chose parents, the most possible reason is __________．

   1. A.
      parents don't love their children
   2. B.
      children don't trust（信任） their parents
   3. C.
      parents aren't able to give good advice
   4. D.
      sometimes parents and children can't understand each other
3. 3.

   According to the fact that only 9％of the students wanted to communicate with their head teacher or teachers，what is the best suggestion?

   1. A.
      The students should work harder．
   2. B.
      The students should listen to the teachers more carefully．
   3. C.
      The teachers should be more strict with the students．
   4. D.
      The teachers should pay more attention to the students' feelings．
4. 4.

   According to the article which of the following is NOT true?

   1. A.
      Only a little part(部分) of students ask their teachers for help
   2. B.
      Students trust parents more than classmates
   3. C.
      About 400 students will ask their friends or classmates for help
   4. D.
      All the students come from the same middle school
5. 5.

   According to the article we can infer(推断)：

   1. A.
      we must be friends to them if we want the children to trust us
   2. B.
      Teachers can’t give students enough help
   3. C.
      Students have few troubles in school
   4. D.
      Students always tell their friends or classmates anything

Friends are important to the children. Research shows that children who have no friends can suffer from difficulties later in life. Friendship provides children with more than just fun. In making friends, children learn how to get in touch with the others and solve problems. Having friends even does good to children’s study for they can help each other during the class.
If the parents care about their children whether they made many friends，what matters is that the child is comfortable and happy with his friends. Parents need to understand the steps children take in building friendships. First of all, be a friend to your child. Good friendships start at home. Children begin to develop the necessary ability to go out and meet others through getting with their parents. Greet the child warmly and let him know you are glad to see him. Children learn a lot from how their parents stay with them and other people.
Teach children how to solve conflicts(争端). Being able to work out conflicts is an important skill in getting along with others. If parents know the children have a conflict, let them work it out on their own. Only step in if it is really necessary, for example, an argument is getting physical.
Give children chances to practice staying together. Have children play games that require team work and group problem solving skills. For example, races are fun and provide plenty of practice in teamwork. “In what ways didn’t you work well together? What might you do differently next time?” For these ideas, see books such as Games Book by Terry Orlick, Energizers by Carol Apacki, and Team-Building Activities for Every Group by Alanna Jones.
Encourage children to show thanks to the others. The parents can encourage children to do this by setting the example for them.
【小题1】According to the article, if one child has no friend, he will               .

Friends are important to the children. Research shows that children who have no friends can suffer from difficulties later in life. Friendship provides children with more than just fun. In making friends, children learn how to get in touch with the others and solve problems. Having friends even does good to children’s study for they can help each other during the class.

If the parents care about their children whether they made many friends，what matters is that the child is comfortable and happy with his friends. Parents need to understand the steps children take in building friendships. First of all, be a friend to your child. Good friendships start at home. Children begin to develop the necessary ability to go out and meet others through getting with their parents. Greet the child warmly and let him know you are glad to see him. Children learn a lot from how their parents stay with them and other people.

Teach children how to solve conflicts(争端). Being able to work out conflicts is an important skill in getting along with others. If parents know the children have a conflict, let them work it out on their own. Only step in if it is really necessary, for example, an argument is getting physical.

Give children chances to practice staying together. Have children play games that require team work and group problem solving skills. For example, races are fun and provide plenty of practice in teamwork. “In what ways didn’t you work well together? What might you do differently next time?” For these ideas, see books such as Games Book by Terry Orlick, Energizers by Carol Apacki, and Team-Building Activities for Every Group by Alanna Jones.

Encourage children to show thanks to the others. The parents can encourage children to do this by setting the example for them.

1.According to the article, if one child has no friend, he will               .

A．have some troubles in the future           B．worry about everything in the future

C．not know the importance of making friends    D．not find anybody to help him

2.Friendship can be helpful to the children EXCEPT              .

A．providing a lot of fun                     B．getting in touch with others

C．solving the problems                     D．helping to trick in the exams

3.The writer’s purpose of writing the article is to               .

A．tell what parents should do to help the children make friends

B．show friends even does good to children’s study during the class

C．tell the parents need to understand the steps of children’s friendship

D．show how important the friendship is to the children

4.When the children disagree with each other, the parents should                 .

A．let them fight with each other until they find who is the winner

B．do nothing to the children and believe in their abilities

C．let them work it out by themselves and help if necessary

D．talk with them and try to find good ways to stay together

When you are in trouble，whom will you tell the problems to and ask for help? Someone has made a survey in a middle school．500 students were asked to choose one answer among friends or classmates，parents，head teacher and teachers．Here is the result．Please read the chart and try to get some information．

1.Most of the students would like to talk about their problems with _________．

A．friends or classmates

B．parents

C．head teacher

D．teachers

2.Less than a quarter of the students chose parents, the most possible reason is __________．

A．parents don't love their children

B．children don't trust（信任） their parents

C．parents aren't able to give good advice

D．sometimes parents and children can't understand each other

3.According to the fact that only 9％of the students wanted to communicate with their head teacher or teachers，what is the best suggestion?

A．The students should work harder．

B．The students should listen to the teachers more carefully．

C．The teachers should be more strict with the students．

D．The teachers should pay more attention to the students' feelings．

4.According to the article which of the following is NOT true?

A. Only a little part(部分) of students ask their teachers for help.

B. Students trust parents more than classmates.

C. About 400 students will ask their friends or classmates for help.

D. All the students come from the same middle school.

5.According to the article we can infer(推断)：

A．we must be friends to them if we want the children to trust us.

B．Teachers can’t give students enough help.

C．Students have few troubles in school.

D．Students always tell their friends or classmates anything.