Chinese politeness have always been formal to follow strict rules, although sometimes Chinese people seem to be impolite according to Western standards in public places. To well understand Chinese, some concepts should not be ignored.

Mianzi

The idea of shame, usually expressed as 'face' could be loosely defined as the 'status' or 'self-respect' in Chinese and by no means alien to foreigners. It is the worst thing for a Chinese to lose face. Never insult, embarrass, shame, yell at or otherwise demean a person. Since all these actions would risk putting a Chinese in a situation that he might lose face, neither try to prove someone wrong nor shout at him in public. In order to get a successful effect without letting a Chinese lose face, any criticism should be delivered privately, carefully, or else, just opposite to what you wish.

Guanxi

Throughout much of Chinese history, the fundamental glue that has held society together is the concept of guanxi, relationships between people. It is very important for the Chinese to have good relationships. They often regard good social relations as a symbol of personal ability and influence. Someone who has no connections would be disrespected and is only half-Chinese.

Keqi

Keqi not only means considerate, polite, and well mannered, but also represents respect and modesty. It is impolite to talk too proudly about oneself or one's inner circle. The expression is most often used in the negative, as in buyao keqi, meaning "you shouldn't be so kind and polite to me," or "you're welcome."

Besides, Chinese seldom express what they think directly and they prefer a roundabout way. Neither show their emotions and feelings in public. They rarely greet people with a handshake, though it is very popular among foreigners, and say nothing of embracing or kissing when greeting or saying good-bye. Consequently, it is better not to behave too carefree in public, even though you are well-intentioned. Also, it is advisable to be fairly cautious in political discussions. Do not particularly push yourself forward, or else you are unwelcome.

To sum up, do in Rome as Rome does, but you need not worry about these cultural barriers since most Chinese are hospitable and friendly and will not mind your no accomplishment.

In most Chinese’s eyes, the fundamental glue holding society together is the idea of ____.

A. relationships between people             B. influences upon others

C. dependence on others                 D. kindness to others

The underlined word “demean” in the first paragraph means make people _____.

A. respectful           B. happy            C. shameful        D. weak

Which of the following is NOT mentioned in the passage?

A. It is impolite to insult, embarrass, shame or shout at a person.        

B. It is polite that you should bring gifts to others when invited to dinner.

C. It is necessary to show your character of being considerate, polite, and well mannered.     

D. It is important for the Chinese to have good relationships between people.

Which of the following proverbs has the same meaning as the underlined sentence “Do in Rome as Rome does.”?

A. Caution is the parent of safety.        B. Many hands make light work.

C. There’s no smoke without fire.          D. If you are elsewhere, live as they do there.

Chinese politeness have always been formal to follow strict rules, although sometimes Chinese people seem to be impolite according to Western standards in public places. To well understand Chinese, some concepts should not be ignored.
Mianzi
The idea of shame, usually expressed as 'face' could be loosely defined as the 'status' or 'self-respect' in Chinese and by no means alien to foreigners. It is the worst thing for a Chinese to lose face. Never insult, embarrass, shame, yell at or otherwise demean a person. Since all these actions would risk putting a Chinese in a situation that he might lose face, neither try to prove someone wrong nor shout at him in public. In order to get a successful effect without letting a Chinese lose face, any criticism should be delivered privately, carefully, or else, just opposite to what you wish.
Guanxi
Throughout much of Chinese history, the fundamental glue that has held society together is the concept of guanxi, relationships between people. It is very important for the Chinese to have good relationships. They often regard good social relations as a symbol of personal ability and influence. Someone who has no connections would be disrespected and is only half-Chinese.
Keqi
Keqi not only means considerate, polite, and well mannered, but also represents respect and modesty. It is impolite to talk too proudly about oneself or one's inner circle. The expression is most often used in the negative, as in buyao keqi, meaning "you shouldn't be so kind and polite to me," or "you're welcome."
Besides, Chinese seldom express what they think directly and they prefer a roundabout way. Neither show their emotions and feelings in public. They rarely greet people with a handshake, though it is very popular among foreigners, and say nothing of embracing or kissing when greeting or saying good-bye. Consequently, it is better not to behave too carefree in public, even though you are well-intentioned. Also, it is advisable to be fairly cautious in political discussions. Do not particularly push yourself forward, or else you are unwelcome.
To sum up, do in Rome as Rome does, but you need not worry about these cultural barriers since most Chinese are hospitable and friendly and will not mind your no accomplishment.
【小题1】In most Chinese’s eyes, the fundamental glue holding society together is the idea of ____.

A．relationships between people	B．influences upon others
C．dependence on others	D．kindness to others

【小题2】The underlined word “demean” in the first paragraph means make people _____.

A．respectful

B．happy

C．shameful

D．weak

【小题3】Which of the following is NOT mentioned in the passage?

A．It is impolite to insult, embarrass, shame or shout at a person.

B．It is polite that you should bring gifts to others when invited to dinner.

C．It is necessary to show your character of being considerate, polite, and well mannered.

D．It is important for the Chinese to have good relationships between people.

【小题4】 Which of the following proverbs has the same meaning as the underlined sentence “Do in Rome as Rome does.”?

A．Caution is the parent of safety.	B．Many hands make light work.
C．There’s no smoke without fire.	D．If you are elsewhere, live as they do there.

Chinese politeness have always been formal to follow strict rules, although sometimes Chinese people seem to be impolite according to Western standards in public places. To well understand Chinese, some concepts should not be ignored.

Mianzi

The idea of shame, usually expressed as 'face' could be loosely defined as the 'status' or 'self-respect' in Chinese and by no means alien to foreigners. It is the worst thing for a Chinese to lose face. Never insult, embarrass, shame, yell at or otherwise demean a person. Since all these actions would risk putting a Chinese in a situation that he might lose face, neither try to prove someone wrong nor shout at him in public. In order to get a successful effect without letting a Chinese lose face, any criticism should be delivered privately, carefully, or else, just opposite to what you wish.

Guanxi

Throughout much of Chinese history, the fundamental glue that has held society together is the concept of guanxi, relationships between people. It is very important for the Chinese to have good relationships. They often regard good social relations as a symbol of personal ability and influence. Someone who has no connections would be disrespected and is only half-Chinese.

Keqi

Keqi not only means considerate, polite, and well mannered, but also represents respect and modesty. It is impolite to talk too proudly about oneself or one's inner circle. The expression is most often used in the negative, as in buyao keqi, meaning "you shouldn't be so kind and polite to me," or "you're welcome."

Besides, Chinese seldom express what they think directly and they prefer a roundabout way. Neither show their emotions and feelings in public. They rarely greet people with a handshake, though it is very popular among foreigners, and say nothing of embracing or kissing when greeting or saying good-bye. Consequently, it is better not to behave too carefree in public, even though you are well-intentioned. Also, it is advisable to be fairly cautious in political discussions. Do not particularly push yourself forward, or else you are unwelcome.

To sum up, do in Rome as Rome does, but you need not worry about these cultural barriers since most Chinese are hospitable and friendly and will not mind your no accomplishment.

1.In most Chinese’s eyes, the fundamental glue holding society together is the idea of ____.

A. relationships between people           B. influences upon others

C. dependence on others                   D. kindness to others

2.The underlined word “demean” in the first paragraph means make people _____.

A. respectful         B. happy            C. shameful        D. weak

3.Which of the following is NOT mentioned in the passage?

A. It is impolite to insult, embarrass, shame or shout at a person.        

B. It is polite that you should bring gifts to others when invited to dinner.

C. It is necessary to show your character of being considerate, polite, and well mannered.     

D. It is important for the Chinese to have good relationships between people.

4. Which of the following proverbs has the same meaning as the underlined sentence “Do in Rome as Rome does.”?

A. Caution is the parent of safety.        B. Many hands make light work.

C. There’s no smoke without fire.          D. If you are elsewhere, live as they do there.

 

阅读理解

　　Johnson was a young film producer. He wanted Sarina to act in his latest film. But Sarina was famous and she worked only with famous producers.

　　Johnson was not at all famous. In fact this was his first film. He knew it would be difficult to persuade the actress to work for him.

　　He decided to take her out to dinner.“I’ll try to impress her.”he thought.“Then she’ll act in my film.”Sarina agreed to have dinner with him. He chose the most expensive restaurant in the city and paid the waiters to greet them by name and give them the best table. When Johnson and the actress arrived, the headwaiter hurried up to them.“Good evening, Mr. Johnson. Good evening, Miss Sarina,”he said.“Please come this way. Your table is ready for you.”He led them to a table near the window, and then another waiter came up immediately and took their order.

　　During the meal, Johnson noticed that Herbert Grange was in the restaurant. Grange was a very famous producer indeed.

　　When Grange left his table to go to the bathroom, Johnson asked Sarina to excuse him, and went to the bathroom as well.

　　As Grange was washing his hands, Johnson went up and said, “Mr. Grange, please help me. I’m trying to persuade Sarina to act in my film, but she doesn’t think I’m important enough. Would you be kind enough to come over to my table, pat me on the shoulder and say.‘Good to see you, Johnson. We must have lunch again soon.’”

　　Grange smiled.“OK,”he said.“Anything to help an ambitious(有抱负的)young man.”

　　Johnson returned to his table. A few minutes later Grange came up to him, pat him on the shoulder and said,“Good to see you, Johnson. We must have lunch again soon.”

　　Johnson looked up at him angrily and said,“Oh, go away, Herbie, can’t you see I’m busy!”

1．Johnson wanted to invite Sarina to dinner to ________.

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2．Johnson and Sarina were given a warm welcome because ________.

[　　]

A．Johnson paid them beforehand

B．they were important

C．they were guests

D．they were rich and famous

3．Johnson asked Mr Grange to say“Good to see you, Johnson. We must have lunch again soon” ________.

[　　]

A．to make himself important

B．to make himself famous

C．to make Mr Grange known to Sarina

D．to invite Mr Grange to lunch

4．The best title of the passage should be ________.

[　　]

A．An Important Friend

B．Johnson and Mr Grange

C．Johnson and Sarina

D．A Strange Man, Johnson