5．When you meet someone for the first time，you will get a general idea in your mind of that person in the first moment．Your feelings about other people，however，are really just show the way that you look at yourself．Your reactions to others say more about you than they do about others．You cannot really love or hate about yourself．We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and may dislike those who have the same characters as ourselves that we dislike．
Therefore，you can allow others to be the mirror to see more clearly your own feelings of self-worth．And，you can view the people you judge negatively （否定地） as mirrors to show you what you are not accepting about yourself．
To live peacefully with others，you will need to learn patience．A big challenge is to let your judgment of others be a lifelong research of yourself．Your task is to consider all the decisions and judgments you make onto others carefully and to begin to see whether you can use them to help yourself and become whole．
Several days ago I had a business lunch with a man who showed objectionable table manners．My first feeling was to judge him as rude．When I noticed that I was judging him，I stopped and asked myself what I was feeling．I discovered that I was nervous to be seen with someone who was eating with his mouth open and loudly blowing his nose．I was very surprised to find how much I cared about how the other people in the restaurant judged me．
Remember that your judgment of someone will not serve as some kind of protective thing against you becoming like him．Just because I judge my lunch partner as rude，it does not prevent me from ever looking or acting like him．In the same way，my patience to him would not cause me to suddenly begin eating my food with my mouth open．
When you get close to life in this manner，those with whom you hate very much as well as those whom you admire and love can be seen as mirrors，guiding you to discover parts of yourself that you dislike and to embrace your greatest characters you are proud of．
52．In the writer's opinion，when we judge others，we are reallyB．
A．treating them in a polite way
B．showing what we ourselves are
C．guiding ourselves to know them
D．telling them what they should do
53．Why did the writer feel bad when he was with his lunch partner？C
A．Because he was afraid he himself might get the bad habits．
B．Because he was too angry to go on with his lunch any more．
C．Because he was afraid he might be thought badly of by others．
D．Because he was too nervous to speak his opinions out right there．
54．The underlined word"objectionable"in Paragraph 4 probably meansC．
A．unbelievable
B．unforgettable
C．unacceptable
D．unreasonable
55．The writer writes the passage toD．
A．tell us a story that happened in a restaurant
B．ask us not to behave rudely in some public places
C．encourage us to have the right attitude towards others
D．advise us to know ourselves from judging others properly．
分析 本文讲述了我们不喜欢的人的身上有很多我们不喜欢我们自己的地方．这些我们喜欢还是不喜欢的地方都反应出我们自己的性格的很多方面，我们不要总是去判断别人，而是要反思我们自己．
解答 答案：52．B 细节理解题．根据第一段第一句When you meet someone for the first time，you will get a general idea in your mind of that person in the first moment．Your feelings about other people，however，are really just show the way that you look at yourself．当你第一次见到某人，你会得到一个总的概念在你心中的那个人的那一刻，你对其他人，但是，真的只是表明你看自己的方式．你对别人的反应更多关于你自己而不是别人．可知当我们评判别人的时候，我们是真在展示我们自己．故选B．
53．C 细节理解题．根据倒数第三段第二行句子I was very surprised to find how much I cared about how the other people in the restaurant judged me．我很惊讶的发现我是多么关心在餐馆里的其他人如何认为我．可知因为他害怕他可能会被别人认为不好．故选C．
54．C 词义猜测题．根据第四段第一行句子Several days ago I had a business lunch with a man who showed objectionable table manners．My first feeling was to judge him as rude．前几天我有一个商务午餐与一名男子表现不可接受的餐桌礼仪．我的第一感觉是：他粗鲁无礼．可知 objectionable 意为不可接受的．故选C．
55．D 主旨归纳题．根据整篇文章内容及其第一段第一行句子Your feelings about other people，however，are really just show the way that you look at yourself．Your reactions to others say more about you than they do about others．You cannot really love or hate about yourself．你对别人的反应更多关于你自己而不是别人，你不能真正的爱或者恨自己．和When you get close to life in this manner，those with whom you hate very much as well as those whom you admire and love can be seen as mirrors．当你以这种方式接近生活时，那些你非常憎恨的人以及那些你欣赏和爱的人可以被看作镜子．可知建议我们正确地知道自己从而判断他人．故选D．
点评 在通读全文的基础上，根据全文大意，展开逻辑思维，瞻前顾后，认真观察选项，仔细推敲，确定最佳答案．
