My parents don't listen. How can I communicate with them?

Communication is hard work. It's often easier to say nothing than to talk things out. But you shouldn't make excuses not to communicate — "They never listen anyway", "We will only end up fighting", or "They will just make fun of me".

    You should also avoid(避免) communication killers. When your parents don't seem to understand you, it doesn't take long for you to form habits that kill communication. Some of these communication-killers are:

The silent treatment. You don't speak at all to your parents.

Just putting up with（忍受） it. You say what you think your parents want to hear, but then go out secretly and do what you want anyway.

Bigger, better, and nicer. You tell your parents how much better your friends' parents are.

Running away. You get so frustrated(沮丧的) that you leave the room or the house to avoid further quarrelling.

    Don't get frustrated or give up. Keep the lines of communication open. Just follow the tips

below.

You must always keep in mind that they are your parents and that you have to respect them. If you make a mistake, admit (承认) it, and say sorry. If they do something wrong to you, point it out to them without getting loud or quarrelling with them.

    Listen to what they have to say because parents are wiser about some things and are always trying to protect you. Put yourself in their shoes and when you are talking to them, don't say anything which might be held against you. Don't let your anger put down your character.

Communicate with your parents; don't let the day end without reaching an agreement and make sure that the agreement pleases yourself, as well as your parents. Let it all go; tell your parents how much you love them.

37. Which of the following actions belong to "communication-killers"?

   ①Refusing to talk.

   ②Comparing your parents with others'.

   ③Shouting at your parents.

   ④Running away.

   A．①②③            B．①②④        C．①③④      D．②③④

38. When our parents make a mistake, we should_______.

   A. ask them to say sorry   B. avoid it        C. point it out politely  D. forget it

39. Why should we listen to what our parents have to say?

   A. Because they are always trying to stop us from being hurt.

   B. Because they are our parents and we have to respect them.

   C. Because it will make communication easier.

   D. Because they will be angry if we don't.

40. The last paragraph mainly tells us that_______.

   A. we should understand our parents

   B. we should love and respect our parents

   C. we shouldn't care only about the result of the communication

   D. we shouldn't leave the problem with our parents to tomorrow

Do you remember who gets angry because you forget to tidy up your room before going out? Do you remember who feels ?? ? ?? with your dress from head to feet? This person is ?? ? ?? your boss nor your friend. It’s funny that you have to ?? ? ?? to her even though you sometimes don’t like to hear anything she has said. It’s our mother, a great ?? ? ?? in the world to us.

I always ?? ? ?? my mother if we have a “long time no see”. But this kind of missing is always quieted down by ?? ? ?? because I come back home for comfort and ?? ? ?? but mum always puts more pressure on me. Of course, I know she? ?? ? ?? about me too much and just has a lot of words to tell me. But the ?? ? ?? turns to be pressure. On the other hand, I hurt her and make her feel lonely even though I am ?? ? ?? her. Then what can we do? This problem is really hard to deal with. I think not ?? ? ?? I have this problem. Here are my ideas. When we find there are some unhappy things going to ?? ? ?? , shall we just stop for 30 ?? ? ?? ? Give me a chance to rest in your arms and we sing a childish song together just like when I was ?? ? ?? ? I need your love indeed but without telling me to do as you wish me to. And then let’s go out for a walk hand in hand. Tell me what’s in your ?? ? ?? gently and slowly. I will feel better if you don’t just pour them out.

1.A. dissatisfied????????????? ????????????? B. uncertain????????????? ????????????? C. untrue????????????? ????????????? ????????????? D. dishonest

2.A. never????????????? ????????????? ????????????? B. either????????????? ????????????? ????????????? C. neither????????????? ????????????? ????????????? D. none

3.A. belong????????????? ????????????? ????????????? B. listen????????????? ????????????? ????????????? C. change????????????? ????????????? ????????????? D. follow

4.A. advisor????????????? ????????????? ????????????? B. teacher????????????? ????????????? C. instructor????????????? ????????????? D. woman

5.A. write????????????? ????????????? ????????????? B. miss????????????? ????????????? ????????????? C. love????????????? ????????????? ????????????? D. cheer

6.A. arguments????????????? ????????????? B. works????????????? ????????????? ????????????? C. helps????????????? ????????????? ????????????? D. talks

7.A. money????????????? ????????????? ????????????? B. support????????????? ????????????? C. relaxation????????????? ????????????? D. advice

8.A. thinks????????????? ????????????? ????????????? B. worries????????????? ????????????? C. plans????????????? ????????????? ????????????? D. manages

9.A. description????????????? ????????????? B. condition????????????? ????????????? C. care????????????? ????????????? ????????????? D. mind

10.A. against????????????? ????????????? ????????????? B. beyond????????????? ????????????? C. among????????????? ????????????? ????????????? D. beside

11.A. only????????????? ????????????? ????????????? B. myself????????????? ????????????? ????????????? C. alone????????????? ????????????? ????????????? D. except

12.A. break????????????? ????????????? ????????????? B. happen????????????? ????????????? C. discover????????????? ????????????? D. appear

13.A. hours????????????? ????????????? ????????????? B. days????????????? ????????????? ????????????? C. seconds????????????? ????????????? D. weeks

14.A. stronger????????????? ????????????? ??? B. younger????????????? ????????????? C. cooler????????????? ????????????? ????????????? D. cleverer

15.A. heart????????????? ????????????? ????????????? B. pocket????????????? ????????????? ????????????? C. diary????????????? ????????????? ????????????? D. life