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  Most people say “yes” much more readily than “no”.A friend is moving house this weekend and would like some help, and you agree.But, what you really want is a couple of quiet days relaxing at home.

  Many people say “yes” to these kinds of requests.They tend not to consider their own interests and feelings, and are often angry with themselves afterwards.

  Saying “no” requires courage and some practice, in fact, according to psychologists(心理学家).“Everyone wants to be liked,” says Gabriele Steinki, a German psychologist.“Saying ‘no’ risks① losing the affection(感情)of the person asking the favor.Or even a job.”

  The result is that many people say “yes” just for keeping the peace.But experts say this is regrettable.Anyone should have the right to say “no”.But, for people are used to agreeing to every request, changing can be a long and uncomfortable process.

  Most people believe that “If say ‘no’, I’ll lose the affection of the person.But the affection is important to me.”This way of thinking can be replaced② by this “If he only likes me because I always do what suits him, then the price of his affection is too high in the long term.”

  Steinki says the key is talking to the other person to find a mutual(互相的)solution③“One needs to present the situation from one’s own point of view, and to suggest how the situation can be dealt with to the advantage of both parties.The other person must have the feeling that his interests are being considered.”

(1)

The following are the reasons why most people say “yes” much more readily than “no” except that ________.

[  ]

A.

they need enough courage to say “no”

B.

they often consider their own interests

C.

they want to keep the peace

D.

saying “no” risks losing the affection of the person asking the favor

(2)

Many people agree to every request and are angry with themselves afterwards because ________.

[  ]

A.

they lose the affection of the other person

B.

they wouldn’t love to lend a hand

C.

they fail to consider their situation

D.

they are used to saying “yes”

(3)

The underlined word “parties” here means ________.

[  ]

A.

people with the same political aims

B.

evening parties

C.

activities

D.

sides

(4)

From Steinki’s point of view, facing the request of a friend for help, one should ________.

[  ]

A.

say “yes”

B.

say “no”

C.

consider one’s interests

D.

consider each other’s interests

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阅读下列短文,从每题所给的四个选项中选出最佳选项。

  I am here to teach ,offering my way of life which has enabled me to beat the doctor an the hangman for ninety years.Some of the details may sound untrue,but they are not.

  We have no permanent habits until we are forty,then they begin to harden.Since forty l have been regular about going to bed and getting up and that is one of the man things.I have made it a rule to go to bed when I had to.This has resulted in a regularity Of irregularity.It has saved me sound,but it would injure another person.

  In the matter of diet-which is another main thing-I have been strict in sticking to the things which didn't agree with me until one or the other of us got the best of it.Until lately I got the best of it myself.But last spring I stopped eating mince pie after midnight.For years I have taken coffee and bread at eight in the morning,and no bite until seven thirty in the evening.That is all right for me,because I have never had a headache in my life, but headachy people would not reach ninety comfortably by that road,and they would be foolish to try it.

  I have made it a rule never to smoke more than one cigar at a time,but no other limits.I do not know just when I began to smoke,I only know that I didn't let my father know it .He passed from this life early in 1917,when I was a shade past eleven; ever since then I have smoked publicly.As an example to others,it has always been my rule never to smoke when asleep,and never to stop when awake.It is a good rule I mean,for me;but some of you know quite well that it wouldn't answer for everybody that's trying to get to be ninety.

  I smoke in bed until I have to go to sleep; I wake up in the night,some-times once,sometimes twice,sometimes three times,and I never waste any Of these opportunities to smoke.This habit is so old and dear and precious to me.I will admit,however,that I have stopped smoking now and then,for a few months at a time,but it was on principle,it was only to show Off;it was to pulverize(粉碎)those people who said l was a slave to my habits and couldn't break away from them.

1.The author of this passage________.

[  ]

A.always goes to sleep at different time every day

B.only smokes one cigar every day

C.doesn't have any for eight hours during the day

D.has some good habits which help him to get to ninety

2.The underlined phrase “got the best of it”in Paragraph 3 probably means________.

[  ]

A.got the best result

B.made the best use of it

C.got a lot of good effect

D.won the fight

3.Sometimes the author stops smoking________.

[  ]

A.to have a break for a few months

B.to show how dear the habit is to him

C.to prove that he can give his habits if he wishes

D.to tell those people who don't like him that he wants to get out of his smoking habit

4.This passage was most likely written________.

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A.in the early 20th century

B.in the mid 20th century

C.in the late 20th century

D.in the early 21st century

5.Although the author says,“I am here to teach”,his purpose is really to________.

[  ]

A.persuade
B.joke
C.give an example
D.give a lesson

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