十二.EHow to apologize properly is much more difficult than we think. Provided you want to teach your children to apologize, you must be good at saying sorry yourself, especially to your own children. But how you say it can be quite tricky. If you say to your children “I’m sorry I got angry with you, but - what follows that “but can make the apology ineffective: “I had a bad day or “your noise was giving me a headache leaves the person feeling that he should be apologizing for his bad behavior in expecting an apology. Another method by which people appear to apologize without actually doing so is to say “I’m sorry you’re upset ; this suggests that you are somehow at fault for allowing yourself to get upset by what the other person has done. Then there is the general, all covering apology, which avoids the necessity of identifying a specific act that was particularly hurtful or insulting, and which the person who is apologizing should promise never to do again. Saying “I’m useless as a parent does not make any sense. These false apologies are used by people who believe saying sorry shows weakness. Parents who wish to teach their children to apologize should see it as a sign of strength, and therefore not voice these false apologies. But even when presented with examples of really being sorry, children still need help to become aware of the complexities of saying sorry. A three-year-old might need help in understanding that other children feel pain just as he does, and that hitting a playmate over the head with a heavy toy requires an apology. A six-year-old might need reminding that spoiling other children’s expectations can require an apology. A 12-year-old might need to be shown that taking the biscuit without asking permission is acceptable, but that borrowing a parent’s clothes without permission is not.52. If a mother adds “but to an apology, . A. the child may feel that he owes her an apology B. she knows that the child has been hurt C. the child may find the apology easier to accept D. she feels that she should have apologized 查看更多

 

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(十二)

To Chinese immigrants, in the mid-1800s, California was “The Land of the Golden Mountain.” In their homeland they had heard the words, “There’s gold in California.” They sailed 7,000miles to join the gold rush and strike it rich. Between 1849 and 1882, more than 30,000 Chinese came to California. Most were men. They had been farmers in China. They came here to be miners and laborers. They ended up doing many other jobs, too.

Like many other immigrants, they did not plan to stay in America. They came because of their ties to their homeland and their families. They planned to return to China with their fortunes and help their families.

Only a few Chinese gold miners struck it rich. Most picked over the areas that had been mined already. But still, white miners resented the Chinese. Slowly, they drove the “yellow peril” from the mining camps.

By the end of the 1850s, many Chinese returned home. Those who stayed found other jobs.

Few women had come west in the gold rush. The Chinese saw a good business opportunity. They began doing the jobs women would have done. Many became house servants. Many more opened laundries.

The Chinese opened restaurants. Chop suey and show mein are popular Chinese-American dishes. The Chinese probably created these dishes to serve to the white miners.

Other Chinese became fishermen, farmers, and even cigar makers.

1. Why did Chinese go to America in the mid-1800s?

A. Because they could find good jobs there.

B. Because they had found gold there.

C. Because they could open laundries and restaurants there.

D. Because they heard there was gold there.

2. The underlined word “resented” mean “________”.

A. liked

B. helped

C. hated

D. served

3. Which of the following was NOT mentioned in the passage?

A. Some Chinese became drivers.

B. Many Chinese opened shops to help wash clothes.

C. Many Chinese picked gold around the old mines.

D. Many Chinese returned to China by the end of the 1850s.

4. Which should be the title of the passage?

A. Early Chinese immigrants in America

B. Dream to strike it rich

C. The difference between men and women

D. Gold miners in America

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(请将答案写在答题卡上的指定位置)

1. If you take away 3 from 8, 5 _____ (剩下).                               1.         

2. We’ve just bought a big house and need some new _____ (家具).                             2.         

3. It is no use _____ (后悔) what you have done.                                                 3.         

4. It was so cold that many wild animals were_____ (冻) to death.                        4.         

5. This is not the _____ (原创) picture, but just a copy of it.                                 5.         

6. December is the _____ (第十二) month of the year.                                         6.         

7. I’m _____ (好奇的) to know what she said.                                                   7.         

8. They are now living _____ (分开).                                                                 8.         

9. She _____ (提醒) me that I hadn’t written to Mother.                                       9.         

10. Taking morning exercise can make people much _____ (健康).                        10.         

11. He’s _____ (明显) a man of very high intelligence.                                        11.         

12. Not all of the _____ (屋顶) of the houses in this area are flat.                          12.         

13. We apologize for the late_____ (到达) of the train.                                        13.         

14. _____ (比较) to many women, she is indeed very fortunate.                                   14.         

15. He is about five feet in _____ (高度).                                                           15.         

16. If you are all sitting _____ (舒服), then I’ll begin.                                                16.         

17. She is making _____ (准备) for her marriage.                                               17.         

18. John _____ (复习) his notes before going to bed.                                                  18.          

19. She is famous, both at home and _____ (国外).                                             19.         

20. The thief spoke in a low voice, _____ (承认) he had stolen the money.                     20.         

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根据下列句子及所给汉语注释,写出空缺处各单词的正确形式。(每空只写一词)

(请将答案写在答题卡上的指定位置)

1. If you take away 3 from 8, 5 _____ (剩下).                             1.         

2. We’ve just bought a big house and need some new _____ (家具).                             2.         

3. It is no use _____ (后悔) what you have done.                                                 3.         

4. It was so cold that many wild animals were_____ (冻) to death.                        4.         

5. This is not the _____ (原创) picture, but just a copy of it.                                 5.         

6. December is the _____ (第十二) month of the year.                                         6.         

7. I’m _____ (好奇的) to know what she said.                                                  7.         

8. They are now living _____ (分开).                                                                 8.         

9. She _____ (提醒) me that I hadn’t written to Mother.                                       9.         

10. Taking morning exercise can make people much _____ (健康).                        10.         

11. He’s _____ (明显) a man of very high intelligence.                                        11.         

12. Not all of the _____ (屋顶) of the houses in this area are flat.                          12.         

13. We apologize for the late_____ (到达) of the train.                                        13.         

14. _____ (比较) to many women, she is indeed very fortunate.                                   14.         

15. He is about five feet in _____ (高度).                                                           15.         

16. If you are all sitting _____ (舒服), then I’ll begin.                                                16.         

17. She is making _____ (准备) for her marriage.                                               17.         

18. John _____ (复习) his notes before going to bed.                                                  18.         

19. She is famous, both at home and _____ (国外).                                             19.         

20. The thief spoke in a low voice, _____ (承认) he had stolen the money.                     20.         

 

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根据下列句子及所给汉语注释,写出空缺处各单词的正确形式。(每空只写一词)
(请将答案写在答题卡上的指定位置)
1. If you take away 3 from 8, 5 _____ (剩下).                             1.         
2. We’ve just bought a big house and need some new _____ (家具).                             2.         
3. It is no use _____ (后悔) what you have done.                                                 3.         
4. It was so cold that many wild animals were_____ (冻) to death.                        4.         
5. This is not the _____ (原创) picture, but just a copy of it.                                 5.         
6. December is the _____ (第十二) month of the year.                                         6.         
7. I’m _____ (好奇的) to know what she said.                                                  7.         
8. They are now living _____ (分开).                                                                 8.         
9. She _____ (提醒) me that I hadn’t written to Mother.                                       9.         
10. Taking morning exercise can make people much _____ (健康).                        10.         
11. He’s _____ (明显) a man of very high intelligence.                                        11.         
12. Not all of the _____ (屋顶) of the houses in this area are flat.                          12.         
13. We apologize for the late_____ (到达) of the train.                                        13.         
14. _____ (比较) to many women, she is indeed very fortunate.                                   14.         
15. He is about five feet in _____ (高度).                                                           15.         
16. If you are all sitting _____ (舒服), then I’ll begin.                                                16.         
17. She is making _____ (准备) for her marriage.                                               17.         
18. John _____ (复习) his notes before going to bed.                                                  18.         
19. She is famous, both at home and _____ (国外).                                             19.         
20. The thief spoke in a low voice, _____ (承认) he had stolen the money.                     20.         

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根据下列句子及所给汉语注释,写出空缺处各单词的正确形式。(每空只写一词)

(请将答案写在答题卡上的指定位置)

1.If you take away 3 from 8, 5 _____ (剩下).                                       

2.We’ve just bought a big house and need some new _____ (家具).                

3.It is no use _____ (后悔) what you have done.                                        

4.It was so cold that many wild animals were_____ (冻) to death.                

5.This is not the _____ (原创) picture, but just a copy of it.                         

6.December is the _____ (第十二) month of the year.                                 

7.I’m _____ (好奇的) to know what she said.                                              

8.They are now living _____ (分开).                                                            

9.She _____ (提醒) me that I hadn’t written to Mother.                                 

10.Taking morning exercise can make people much _____ (健康). 

11.He’s _____ (明显) a man of very high intelligence.                                  

12.Not all of the _____ (屋顶) of the houses in this area are flat. 

13.We apologize for the late_____ (到达) of the train.                                  

14._____ (比较) to many women, she is indeed very fortunate.                    

15.He is about five feet in _____ (高度).                                                       

16.If you are all sitting _____ (舒服), then I’ll begin.                                    

17.She is making _____ (准备) for her marriage.                                        

18.John _____ (复习) his notes before going to bed.                                   

19.She is famous, both at home and _____ (国外).                                        

20.The thief spoke in a low voice, _____ (承认) he had stolen the money.        

 

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