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Learning to Accept
I learned how to accept life as it is from my father, 1 , he did not teach me acceptance when he was strong and healthy.but rather when he was 2 and ill.
My father was 3 a strong man who loved being active, but a terrible illness 4 all that away.Now he can no longer walk, and he must sit quietly in a chair all day.Even talking is 5 .One night, I went to visit him with my sisters, we started 6 about life, and I told them about one of my 7 .I said that we must always give things up 8 we grow-our youth, our beauty, our friends-but it always 9 that after we give something up,we gain something new in its place.Then suddenly my father 10 up.He said,“But, Peter.I gave up 11 !What did I gain?”I thought and thought, but I could not think of anything to say. 12 , he answered his own question:“I 13 the love of my family.”I looked at my sisters, and saw tears in their eyes, along with hope and thankfulness.
I was also 14 by his words.After that, when I began to fell irritated (愤怒的)at someone.I 15 remember his words and become 16 .If he could replace his great pain with a feeling of live for others.then I should be 17 to give up my small irritations.In this 18 , I learned the power of acceptance from my father.
Sometimes I 19 what other things I could have learned from him if I had listened more carefully when I was a boy.For now, though, I am grateful for this one 20 .
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